Is There A Justifiable Reason To Beat Your Partner?
Every human being has different attitude and character. The way each person reacts to things differs. What will make me mad might be something you will see as nothing.
Even with this difference in character and attitude is there ever a justifiable reason to raise your hands on your partner?. This question will always have a two side because for every arguments and fight there is always two different story.
In this modern world we live in, the scene of a woman beating a man is like seeing a cat chase a dog in broad daylight. Yes it is an occurence that can take place but it’s a rare one. Why would a woman even want to be her lover or husband or partner in the first place? Is it because she used to be a wrestler and the husband does not posses the same physical strength as she does? Or is it because she used to be a thug before marriage or courtship and the husband is the gentle and nerdy type? Or is it because your husband impregnated another woman outside marriage and you feel he should be punished so you sent thugs to deal with him?
A woman beating a man used to be a “taboo” but it is been practised probably because many of the taboos of the olden days are seen as “normal things” now. All of the questions asked above are not justifiable reasons for a woman to raise her hands on her lover/husband or throw things at him.
An average African man will tell you the only justifiable time to beat your wife/lover is when you are practically defending yourself from her physical attacks. In truth, you as a man in that moment, have the right legally and morally to defend yourself using whatever means you deemed fit. But is that the only option at that time too? Must the means be by overpowering and battering her?
A man capable of beating a woman every time she does something wrong should be checked if he suffers from mental and psychological trauma because beating a woman is not a sign of proving you are a man like it is been perceive by most men but a sign of not being in charge of your emotions as a real man should.
Having the strength to control your anger is what really makes you a real man and not a coward who hides under the shadow of fist fight. So then why should a guy raise his hands on his woman? Woman can be a very annoying creature but instead of beating them why not just avoid their problems.
So therefore, the answer to the aforementioned question is NO. There never will be a justifiable reason to beat one’s partner.