Just Before You Get Into That Relationship
Many of us go into relationships because we claim to be in love, little do we know that love is the least factor in determining how the relationship will turn out, I blame the SOAP OPERAS for making most people relate fiction or a once in a lifetime situation into real life.
Am talking from experience, I just got out of a relationship with an amazing lady we were both blinded by our feelings that we didn’t realise the facts, we created a world of fantasy around ourselves and when reality set in we were both hurt
She is 2yrs older than me and we started dating when she was in her final year and I was in 300level I know some will say am a bad guy but I don’t think am going to make that mistake again, am almost in my mid twenties so you can do the maths on her age, in the next four years I don’t see myself settling down she would be in her thirties then, we saw it coming but we acted blind, now she has been posted to the South-South am here in Ibadan, the relationship was doomed from onset,why didn’t love intervene? It’s simple, love was helpless.
Other factors to consider
This is reality not some Nollywood movie, without money don’t think love will prevail. I spell DOOM am not saying you need millions but something for a head start.
The time you had to do your own things won’t be there anymore as most of your time will be dedicated to your partner.
This is just a little out of numerous factors.