Is It Worth It?? (Part 1)
More than half of the things that we do, are they really worth it??
You met a girl while at work or on an errand, you guys started talking but you didn’t see the signs that she wasn’t all that into you. You decided to go visiting and she kept you waiting for about an hour, and when she finally showed up she said sorry and she was tired and wanted to go home to rest. Is she still worth talking to after that day??
You met this guy, you became friends. Later he asked you out, with the mindset that he would grow to love you, but instead you remained ‘just a friend’ to him while you were head over heels in love with him. You discovered after sometime that he sleeps with other girls on a steady and after 8months of dating he is ready to move on with life and you don’t want him to leave. He even said he has a new girl and that you just a liability to him. Is he still worth loving at all??
You came from quite a good background and you have the belief #NOSUM. You met this guy and he happens to be your first. You started dating, but he keeps asking for sex. He later said that you either spread your laps for him or he leaves the relationship but you really do love him. Is the belief worth upholding or breaking for him??
In your final year, you met this girl, you started going out and all. You know you are the perfect match for each other despite your differences. One year in to the relationship, you starting getting tired of the arguments that occur repeatedly. Some settled, others swept under the rug. You guys don’t want to break up but due to differences in temperament and behaviour, you both are tired of the relationship of the arguments. Is the relationship still worth keeping or not knowing very well that you would still argue again??
This is just a tip of the iceberg. The other part of ‘Is It Worth It??’ drops real soon.
But feel free to drop your own stories in the comment box. Thanks.