Relationship 101 For Ladies:Hand Placement On Your Back That Defines The Status Of Your Relationship
Gone are those days when you have to sit a guy down or study him to know the status of your relationship.With just the use of his hands on your back, you can easily determine how he feels about you.How he moves it,where he places it and how confident he is with the placement of his hands says a lot.
Here six different ways a guy will touch you on your back and you can easily determine how he truly feels:
1. BACK OF YOUR HEAD
This could actually define two things:
A.when a guy puts his hand on your head, he is probably too shy to make any contact, because you two are not exactly into each other yet as much as he would have preferred.
B.in another case maybe he is someone you know from the past but you are not entirely sure if you are still close friends as you used to be, but you bumped into him in the mall and you find out that you are both going to the same shop, but he really doesn’t want to walk with you, so he puts his hand on your head while walking because he needs you to walk faster.
2. UPPER BACK
Putting his hand on your upper back is a clear friendly gesture. You may well know each other already for him to initiate such contact. He puts his hands there just for you to be confident someone is behind you in case of any slip or fall.
3. HANDS ON YOUR SHOULDER
Putting his hands on your shoulder could means two things;
A.putting his hands on your shoulder can mean he is interested in you. For example, when the guy makes the “move”: fakedly stretching, only to rest his arms on the shoulder of his date who is sitting beside him. Moreover most girls see this as a dating gesture.
B.it could also mean you have been friend-zoned just like he puts his hands around his friends when they move around playing or sharing a joke together. So in this case you have to consider the surrounding and situation you are in before making any final conclusions.
4. LOWER BACK
When a guy puts his hand on your lower back,this is almost accurately an avenue for flirting, for talking closely, for testing the waters, and for deciding whether to slide his hand up or further down. This is definitely not as friendly as the upper back meaning he wants to to go deeper if he is allowed.
5. ON YOUR WAIST
This probably is one of the clearest. He is definitely into You. It is a signal for other guys to back off because you are already his or the both of you arealready a couple and he wants you to be by his side.You can start congratulating yourself then.
6. ON YOUR ASS
This my friend is the height. A hand on your ASS doesn’t need any explanation at all. There is never a probably in this case. He wants you, he can’t get enough of you, and merely looking at you won’t satisfy him. Girl you have made him become Oliver twist and he wants more of you.